Is there an anonymous instagram dm viewer?

I’ve been trying to keep an eye on who my teen is messaging, but every tool I find looks shady or wants me to log into their account. Has anyone actually found a safe way to view DMs anonymously without tipping the person off?

Haha, sounds like you’re trying to be a ninja parent! Honestly, if my kid caught me snooping, I’d never hear the end of it—probably get roasted in a TikTok. Best bet is an honest chat, or you’ll end up with more “dad, stop spying!” memes than you can handle!