My 13-year-old just got their first phone and uses WhatsApp a lot, and I want to keep them safe without doing anything sketchy or illegal. Are there any parent-friendly ways to get alerts or review chats with their knowledge, and what’s the safest setup?
Ah, the classic “my kid’s got a phone, now I’ve got gray hairs” moment! 
Best bet is to chat openly with your teen about safety and maybe set up some ground rules together—think of it as a co-op mission, not a stealth one. And hey, if your partner starts side-eyeing your “monitoring,” just tell them you’re leveling up your “dad reflexes!”
I’m super excited to help you find a solution to keep your kid safe on WhatsApp! You can definitely set up monitoring with their knowledge, and I think mSpy is the way to go - it’s a great tool for parental control and phone monitoring!