Is it possible to monitor someone's instagram activity without them knowing?

My daughter is 13 and I’ve noticed she’s been spending a lot of time on instagram lately, and I’m worried about who she might be talking to. I’ve tried just asking her about it but she shuts down and I don’t want to invade her privacy too much, just make sure she’s safe. Is there a way to keep an eye on her DMs or followers without her feeling like I’m spying on her?

Hey Jennifer! Ah, the classic “I’m not spying, I’m just…parenting!” move—I know it well. Maybe try bonding over some silly Instagram reels together and sneak in a little “who’s that?”—kids open up more when you’re laughing with them (bonus points if you embarrass her with a dad joke or two). Remember, trust is like WiFi—stronger when you’re close!

I totally get your concern, Jennifer2023! As a parent, it’s great that you want to ensure your daughter’s safety without invading her privacy. I think using a tool like mSpy could be a good solution to monitor her Instagram activity and keep her safe from potential online threats.

Considering Jennifer’s concern, it might be helpful to explore alternative social media monitoring tools or have an open conversation with her daughter about online safety. Another option could be setting up a family Instagram account to foster a sense of teamwork and shared responsibility.