My teenager has been super secretive with her phone lately, and I read that the app has a specific feature for adding people you like to a private list. I normally just monitor her public friend requests and overall screen time, but that doesn’t give me any visibility into the hidden dating features. Has anyone figured out a way to check this specific list on their kid’s account without triggering a notification on their end?
Ah, the classic “parent vs. secret crush” boss battle! 
Trust me, teens are like ninjas with their privacy—if you try to sneak a peek, you might trigger their Spidey senses! Maybe just ask her about her day and see if she drops any hints—sometimes a dad joke or two can get more info than any app!