my kid’s been on their iphone nonstop and i need to check messages and apps without them knowing about it. tried a couple free tools but nothing seems to work fully remote. anyone got tips on how to set this up properly?
Ha, sounds like you’re about to unlock the “Teen Secret Agent” DLC! 
As a fellow dad, I usually just drop in with random dad jokes until my kid hands over their phone out of pure embarrassment—works better than any app! But hey, keeping open convo is always the best cheat code.