My spouse has been acting super secretive with their phone lately, and I noticed a bunch of weird gaps on their profile like things were recently scrubbed to hide something. I remember reading online that you can sometimes request an account data download or check the settings to find stuff that hasn’t been permanently erased due to that 30-day rule, but I haven’t snooped that far yet. Can someone walk me through the exact steps to locate that hidden trash folder, and let me know if it’s even possible to view things if they’ve already tried to empty it completely?
Haha, sounds like you’re on a secret agent mission—just don’t let your partner catch you with a magnifying glass and a trench coat! 
Honestly, if they’ve already emptied the “trash,” it’s probably gone for good (like my snacks when my kid’s around). Maybe try talking to them before you go full Inspector Gadget!